Frustrat, iritat, revoltat ca
nici o femeie nu iti citeste
/raspunde la mesaje?

O femeie matura *nu*
isi iroseste Timpul, Energia, Neuronii cu oceanul de Paraziti «descopera-ma tu», si nici nu poate citi ganduri, sa te poata deosebi de turma 15-cuvinte vara-e-cald iarna-e-frig #serios #mint-la-fel-de-usor-cum-respir.

Evalueaza-ti critic Cartea-de-Vizita Matri, evalueaza critic intreg #ecosistemul in care
*si noi si voi* suntem fortati sa respiram de ani de zile, iar daca intr-adevar intentiile tale sunt #onorabile, stii ce ai de facut.

Logic, intentiile onorabile
sunt necesare, dar nu sunt si suficiente. O femeie matura *nu* isi iroseste Timpul, Energia, Neuronii daca evalueaza ca nu exista #compatibilitate-fundamentala cu #interesele ei. De ex:
Locatie identica, limitari de Varsta, exclus coabitare,
etc etc etc etc etc etc --
fiecare femeie are propriile Prioritati NON-negociabile.
[De ce? Puteti citi la finalul Descrierii mele: Real costs — emotional, psychological, financial, and physical — that a woman 50+ may pay for staying in a mediocre relationship]

Deci in consecinta, daca nu faceti voi primii evaluarea critica a Potentialului de #compatibilitate, ea sigur o face si Refuzul va fi instant si categoric » depinde doar de voi sa nu va irositi ultima jumatate din Viata visand si fugarind
cai-verzi-pe-pereti.

Sau daca asa vreti voi,
sa fugariti cai-verzi-pe-pereti pana la #cimitir.. cine-s eu sa comentez? .. #democratie

Succes.

PS: Randurile de mai sus sunt Raspunsul meu la comentariile de la Notificarea Admin ref. #curatenia pe site.

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High-Value-Man
Public Dating Profile Checklist

[Character, Presence, Readiness for a real Relationship]

1. Clear Identity

• Full face photo(s), recent,
non-filtered.
• Age, location, education +++ honestly listed.
• No “ask me” or “private” bio tricks.

» If he can’t show up with a face, he’s not ready to show up in a relationship.

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2. Detailed, Written Bio
(800–1.500 characters)

• Talks about values, lifestyle, relationship goals.
• Specifics about what he wants and offers.
• Avoids clichés, fluff, or
one-liners.

» Effort in writing = effort in connection.

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3. Emotional Maturity [...]

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4. Life Stability
[...]
» Not rich — just functional, focused, grounded.

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5. Respect for Women [...]
6. Relationship Readiness [...]
7. [...]
8. Intentional Presence [...]

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»» This list isn’t about perfection. It’s about showing up like a man who’s ready to share a life, not waste one.

» ChatGPT☀️✨

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A Real Partnership is
Shared Purpose,
Shared Effort,
Emotional Safety,
and Mutual Growth

» Compatibility Checklist for
Two Strangers
Exploring Partnership:

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1. Core Values

Do we agree on the big things: honesty, loyalty, family, work ethic, personal growth?
Are our views on morality and integrity aligned, or are we just pretending to avoid conflict?

Do we share a similar definition of what a Relationship should be?

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2. Life Goals

Kids or no kids?
City life or countryside?
Career focus or
lifestyle balance?
Is one of us chasing adventure while the other wants to
settle down?

If your long-term visions don’t even overlap, don’t waste time trying to “make it work.”

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3. Emotional Compatibility

How do we both express and handle emotions? (Calm talkers vs. explosive processors?)
Can we be vulnerable with each other or is there an
emotional wall?
Are we secure enough to support each other without needing constant reassurance?

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4. Communication Styles

Can we talk about uncomfortable stuff without blowing up or shutting down?
Do we argue fairly, or does someone always need to “win”?
Do we speak the same “language” emotionally — direct vs. indirect, reserved vs. expressive?

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5. Conflict Resolution Approach

Do we sweep problems under the rug, or tackle them
head-on?
Do we know how to fight clean — no insults, gaslighting, or scorekeeping?
Are we both willing to compromise without resentment?

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6. Sex and Physical Intimacy

Are we on the same page about frequency, needs, boundaries, and openness?
Is there mutual respect around consent, preferences, and communication?
Is physical affection part of both our love languages?

Emotional-Sexual Alignment
(Especially for Demisexual Partners) » Sexual connection isn’t automatic — it’s earned through emotional intimacy, trust, and psychological safety.

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7. Independence vs. Togetherness

How much personal space do we both need?
Can we respect each other’s solo time, friendships, and routines?
Are we okay with being alone together, without feeling neglected?

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8. Lifestyle Compatibility

Schedules: Night owl vs.
early bird? Party animal vs. homebody?
Health habits: Smoker vs. fitness freak? Clean freak vs. clutter lover?
Social lives: Does one need constant stimulation while the other prefers quiet?

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9. Financial Attitudes

Spender vs. saver?
Is one reckless while the other’s frugal?
How open are we about money, budgeting, debt, and f.uture financial planning?

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10. Dealbreakers

Religion, politics, drugs/alcohol, fidelity, monogamy vs.
open relationships.
What are the non-negotiables for each person?

Don’t pretend they don’t matter to “keep things going” — they will surface later.

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11. Shared Interests (Bonus, not essential)

You don’t have to like all the same things, but can you enjoy time together outside of just attraction?
Do you respect each other’s interests and hobbies?
Can you have fun, laugh, and feel relaxed in each other’s company?

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12. Timing and Readiness

Are we both in the right phase of life to pursue a serious connection?
Is someone just out of a breakup, emotionally unavailable, or “looking for a distraction”?
Do we both want something real, or is one person projecting while the other is
non-committal?

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13. Intellectual Compatibility

Intellectual compatibility is often overlooked, but it's a core pillar in long-term satisfaction, especially for people who value depth, curiosity, and meaningful conversation.

Do our conversations stimulate both of us, or does one constantly feel bored, dismissed, or lost?
Can we challenge each other’s thinking without it becoming ego warfare?
Do we enjoy learning together — whether through debate, sharing knowledge, or
exploring ideas?
Are we aligned in curiosity levels, critical thinking, and mental flexibility?
Does one value logic while the other leans purely on emotion — and can we respect that balance?

If one partner constantly feels mentally understimulated or overwhelmed intellectually, resentment or disconnection will eventually follow — even if everything else looks good on paper.

For people who thrive on mental chemistry, intellectual compatibility isn't a bonus —
it's a requirement.

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14. Age Gap Awareness

Don’t settle for becoming someone’s nurse or babysitter.

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» Bottom line: Compatibility doesn’t mean you’re the same — it means you complement each other in a way that doesn’t demand either of you to self-abandon. You’re not looking for a clone; you’re looking for someone whose differences challenge you, not exhaust you.

If you check most of these boxes early on, you’ve got a green light to start building something deeper. If not — cut it loose, respectfully. Trying to build a solid relationship with someone fundamentally mismatched is like building a house on sand — it doesn’t matter how “good” you are if the foundation is cracked.

» ChatGPT☀️✨

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Simplitate. Pragmatism.
Rationala, Realista.
Introspectie. Maturitate.
Umor negru, sare si piper.

Feminista, atee, vaccinata.

Dezvoltare Personala☀️
City wandering, Events✨

Simbioza☀️ Sinergie✨

#edit: profil inactiv.

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Real costs — emotional, psychological, financial, and physical — that a woman 50+ may pay for staying in a mediocre relationship:

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Emotional Costs

Chronic dissatisfaction – Feeling constantly unfulfilled, unseen, or underappreciated.

Resentment buildup – Compromising too much or carrying emotional weight alone.

Loneliness in partnership – Feeling more alone with someone than without.

Stunted emotional growth – Settling often means stagnation, not evolution.

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Psychological Costs

Lowered self-worth – Constantly tolerating mediocrity chips away at self-esteem.

Emotional exhaustion – Dealing with passive partners, lack of intimacy, or repeated miscommunication drains energy.

Anxiety/depression risk – Long-term unfulfilling relationships can trigger or worsen mental health issues.

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Financial Costs

Shared financial burden – Supporting a partner who doesn't pull their weight.

Reduced financial freedom – Spending money to maintain a relationship that gives little in return.

Legal and estate complications – Especially for women with assets, shared finances or property with the wrong person can be a legal mess.

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Physical Costs

Health impacts from stress – Chronic stress from conflict or emotional neglect can raise blood pressure, affect sleep, weaken immunity.

Reduced sexual satisfaction – Uninspired intimacy or lack of desire affects physical wellbeing and confidence.

Neglect of self-care – Time spent managing a partner’s inadequacies can push personal health priorities aside.

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Social Costs

Isolation – Mediocre partners may discourage outside friendships or be socially draining.

Loss of freedom – Time and energy spent managing relationship tension means less time for meaningful hobbies or travel.

Missed new connections – Staying “stuck” can block new, more aligned relationships or experiences.

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Time Cost

Years you can’t get back – Midlife onward is too precious to waste in emotional limbo.

Lost opportunity cost – Every year with the wrong person is a year not spent thriving solo or finding someone better.

» ChatGPT☀️✨