Sunt si sunt-atrasa-de
tiparul introvert, volubil,
abilitati introspective,
rational, realist, pragmatic,
responsabil, echilibrat
in gandire si fapte,
molipsit de Decenta,
simplitate, maturitate.
Blugi si adidasi. Childlike
Spirit and Curiosity.
Umor negru, sare si piper.
Core-feminist, ateu,
vaccinat.
+ Sunt si nu-accept-in-viata-mea-decat tot un Nurturer, un True Friend, 5 Love Languages.
Loialitate, Dedicare.
Proactive, Teamwork.
Win-Win, Simbioza, Sinergie.
+ Vede partea plina a Paharului,
vede partea goala a Paharului,
si spune Multumesc si
Apreciaza ca are un Pahar.
+ Apetit constant pt
Dezvoltare Personala.
+ Rutina [deja formata] de
City wandering, Events.
Expozitii [flori, fotografie, auto, animalute], targuri tematice [carti, ceramica, antichitati], festivaluri, concerte, cinema, muzee, 1 Iunie, Zilele Iasiului, sarbatori nationale, etc etc etc.
[Foto Profil: August 2020]
+ Zero interes pt coabitare.
Search: LAT Relationships.
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#update 2024
5 ani de Matri.
100+ mesaje lunar.
Locatii random, 25»70 ani.
99% promiscuitate, insurati,
paraziti blegi dar cu hectare
de tupeu, deviatii mentale,
escroci, conturi fake A»Z,
retard, hartuire, obscenitati,
agresivitate verbala.
Minim jumatate din ce e
aparent-Decent e all-fake —
Poze, Parametri, intentii, TOT.
» Cred ca e destul de clar
de ce ati ramas 5+ barbati
la 1 femeie, majoritatea
prostituate si escroace.
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Zero interes pt #dating.
Contul ramane vizibil
doar ca Feedback din
«tabara adversa».
Nu citesc mesajele private.
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«I agree that finding compatible men in the late 40s - early 50s bracket is difficult. It's a small pool filled with many predators and abusers. Dating at this age requires good instincts and thorough vetting skills. Many of them have been kicked to the curb by their former partners.
If those men haven't done the work to change through therapy, self-help, challenging patriarchy, etc. they are going to cause the same problems in their next relationships.
Few men in this age category are willing to do this work.
I've found that I get way more interest from younger men, and the attention can be flattering. The cautionary note here is to make sure they aren't treating you like a "roster option" or a "sugar mama". Some younger men seek out older women because they are more financially stable and are perceived as being more desperate. I have way too many female friends in this age bracket who are full-on supporting younger men by providing free housing, childcare, food and care, while those men provide nothing in return or are actively dating other women.
Go out and have fun, but keep those vetting skills sharp.
Know what you want and don't compromise.»
@reddit
r/WomenDatingOverForty/
r/datingoverforty/
r/OnlineDating/
r/TwoXChromosomes/
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Your Brain on Porn
» Men tend to look for harder and more explicit or deviant images to feel that initial excitement. Research also shows that porn users exhibit more dominating and harassing behavior toward women, have less compassion for rape victims, and have more violent attitudes toward women, even leading to actual violence against women [2].
Common physical problems that porn users experience with real-life partners are trouble getting and maintaining an erection, needing pornographic images to ejaculate, and difficulty even having an orgasm [3].
Porn can change sexual tastes and preferences toward things that are more deviant, dangerous, or illicit than what used to be arousing [5].
Spending a lot of time using porn can be isolating as the user turns more and more to the porn and away from actual people.
Porn teaches that women are sexual objects. Women are portrayed as a collection of orifices, ready at any time for anything sexual the man may want, and with no human or sexual needs of her own. She is neither given nor worthy of basic human dignity and respect; rather, she is objectified and used
for men’s gratification.
@educateempowerkids.org/
8-harmful-effects-of-
pornography-on-individuals/
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People think they’re competing with other suitors when dating me, but really I’m comparing you to my own solitude. That’s the competition. Is your company better than being alone? Am I growing around you like I do when I'm alone? Do I feel safe? Is there joy???
Is there peace??
— @thekayanova
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Benefits of having
True Friends:
» Support.
Having true friends can mean having an effective support system. True friends generally stick around during difficult times.
» Improved quality of life.
Life without friends can be dull and lonely. It may even contribute to depression and other mental health issues. Knowing you have true friends can improve your quality of life by adding moments of happiness, connection, and understanding.
» Promoting self-confidence.
True friends are often there to motivate and encourage you. They may remind you of your positive qualities and all you have to offer when you’re feeling down. When the journey seems challenging, one of the qualities of a good friend may be that they stay by your side and help you overcome any challenge you experience.
» Honesty.
A real friend can be honest with you, even when what they have to say may be hard for you to hear. For example, a true friend may let you know if they notice that your partner seems to be treating you poorly or if your new job seems to be bringing you down. This authenticity and honesty can contribute to a realistic perspective of life.
» Unconditional love.
What is true friendship? True friendship may be defined as mutual unconditional love. This can be a different type of love than you might receive from your family or your partner. Real friends may show unconditional love and expect nothing in return. They may not judge you or think less of you. They will likely always have your back and support you through thick and thin.
» Mental progress.
Real friends can help you focus on your goals, stay motivated, and be creative. Having true friends may help you stay on track and make wise decisions. Real friends generally shouldn't influence you negatively; instead, they might encourage you to do better and help you make decisions that will lead you in the right direction.
Fostering healthy friendships can require effort, dedication, and commitment. It’s often essential to be honest and willing to spend time with your friends. You should also be patient and understanding of each other's circumstances. Additionally, it’s usually best to respect one another's opinions and not be judgmental of their choices. Trust can be another important component of friendship.
@betterhelp.com/
advice/general
/what-is-the-real-definition
-of-a-true-friend/
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[Book] 5 Love Languages:
1. Words of Affirmation.
This is about expressing affection through spoken words, praise, or appreciation. When this is someone's primary love language, they enjoy kind words and encouragement, uplifting quotes, love notes, and cute text messages. You can make this person's day by complimenting them or pointing out what they do well.
2. Quality Time.
Someone with this love language values your full presence when you are together. They feel most loved if you give them your undivided attention and spend time together in meaningful and interactive ways. This means putting down the cell phone, turning off the computer, making eye contact, thoughtfully interacting, and actively listening.
People with this love language are looking for quality over quantity.
3. Physical Touch.
A person with physical touch as their primary love language feels love through physical affection. Aside from sex, they feel loved when their partner holds their hand, touches their arm, or gives them a massage at the end of the day, for example.
This person's idea of a wonderful date night might be cuddling on the couch while watching a movie, slow dancing together with a lot of physical contact, or taking a long walk together while holding hands. They feel most loved when physically interacting with their partner.
4. Acts of Service.
Acts of service are nice things you do for your partner that make them feel loved and appreciated, such as: helping with the dishes, running errands, vacuuming, putting gas in the car.
If your partner's main love language is acts of service, they'll notice and appreciate little things you do for them. They tend to perform acts of service and kindness for others, too.
5. Receiving Gifts.
For someone who resonates with this love language, gifts symbolize love, care, and affection. They treasure not only the gift itself but also the time and effort the gift-giver put into selecting it.
People who enjoy receiving gifts as part of their primary love language do not necessarily expect large or expensive presents; it's more the effort and thoughtfulness behind the gift that count.
When you take the time to pick out a gift specifically for them, it tells them you are thoughtful and really know and care about them and their preferences. People with this love language can often remember every little gift they have received from their loved ones because it makes such an impact on them.
@verywellmind.com/
can-the-five-love-languages-
help-your-relationship-4783538